Starting sometime either this week or next week, I may have some spotty activity online. My parents told me today that they were getting a divorce, so we have to get our current house ready for moving and stuff. Just so you know where I am.
D: Whaa?! Crazy. That's poopy. But it doesn't have to bring everyone down. Sometimes it ends up better. My parents were divorced when I was about 10 or 11 I think. I don't remember. But you & I haven't talked in a bit about life and bullshite. If you want to, you know how to reach me. BTW... Are you moving with your Dad? To have nice dinners? Sorry. Too soon? I try to make tough situations lighter with risky humor. Sometimes it's too much, too soon for people, and they don't like it. Haha Anyway, I'm here if you want to talk, dude. Here or FB.
@Uu_Valkyre_uU - I won't be able to live with my dad, since he'll be on the road all the time for work (if I could, I would). I'm not too worried about it, I was just shocked from it. They've been having problems for about a year and a half now, and they said it's been slowly getting better. Good thing is, they aren't mad at each other or anything, they just think it's best for us. Therefore, they both promised that they wouldn't keep one parent from seeing us, no matter what.
That's the best way that they could have ended it. Civilly. You shouldn't have a very difficult time with it. That's the way that my parents ended it. I didn't have a very hard time with it, except when my Dad was busy a lot and couldn't take us. It was a bummer. But I got over it. Haha Because I lived with my Mom, and my little brother & sister did too. I think that my brother and sister had a harder time with it. They're both younger.
Well, I did have some moments where I had a little bit of a rough time. But I can always usually reason things back down to a calm state. I always have been able to. Things just don't get to me really. I don't stress about things a lot. Or even really a little. Haha Even if or when I get drunk, which is rarely (I don't like to drink really), I can always reason myself sober again. Haha But where I'm getting with this is, it still can get rough. If you have some troubles, talk to me. You and I seem to have gone through a few similar major experiences in life. So it may be that I could help ya out. Even if it's just to give you a heads up, or worst-case-scenario situations to prepare you for the worst. Because chances are, I've at least looked into it. Haha
Also, My Dad re-married and then died when I was about 16. So if you need to talk about Step families, or death of a parent later, I've been there, and hae problem talking about it. Doesn't bother me at all.