Not literarily, but I was asking ( generally ) to the older generation rather than the youth, directed to but not limited to. How have you dealt and eased deaths of close relatives, I hate to think about it but I usually know it is coming and I start just preparing and accepting the fact that it is going to happen before it actually does, yes some don't like to think that way... I guess im too cold any who, surprisingly I expected a death of a relative years ago to be at this time, not expected but rather thought... I dont think im doing it to be an asshole rather to accept it and try to move on, it hurts me to think about it but i believe I have to do. Share your thoughts.